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Can you develop charm?
Each person, openly or secretly, wants to make a good impression on those around him, to draw their enthusiastic attention to himself. But people are usually self-confident, charming, sociable, open-minded. And if a person does not fully possess one or not all of these features, then he thinks that he cannot count on the attention of others. But this is not the case!
Many people have a number of attractive qualities, but they are not able to present themselves to society. So closed people, no matter how charming they are, will not be able to attract attention to themselves until they get out of their loneliness and begin to communicate with others. People who are not communicative will not be able to maintain a conversation in the company of other people without being trained to withstand many opinions, often contrary to their own. People who do not possess the gift of competently and easily expressing their thoughts will not be able to hold the attention of not only a group of people, but also the attention of one interlocutor for a long time.
How to develop charm in yourself?
The ability to attract others to yourself and seem charming to them is:
- the ability to maintain a conversation even in the event of an unpleasant turn,
- the ability to escape from inevitably impending conflicts,
- the ability to take a hit and not succumb to the influence of criticism,
- the ability to find arguments even in the most controversial disputes,
- the ability to stop your speech in time and listen to someone else's opinion,
- and finally, it is the ability not to judge others for their wrong actions.
When you interact with people, make it a rule:
- do not complain to them about your problems,
- tell only good facts about your life,
- do not impose your opinion without knowing the opinion of the interlocutor,
- do not try to solve the problems of others until you are asked to do so,
- learn to gently deny without quarreling,
- eradicate selfish inclinations in yourself - they will not help communication,
- try to be attentive to the days for congratulations, do not forget about birthdays or professional holidays,
- learn to make small pleasant surprises for your friends, to please them.
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