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Conduct rules for lovers in public places

The etiquette rules long ago obliged people to keep their personal relationships away from prying eyes. Thus, human behavior in society has excluded intimate life from the field of view of other people. It all started with an innocent public kiss, the age of which is equated to the time of the existence of the community of monkeys, for whom it serves as an expression of feelings, even primitive animal ones.

Many centuries ago, when human society began to develop rapidly towards civilization, a public kiss could provoke a serious punishment in the form of a fine or imprisonment. Much later, censorship of public viewing of television (movies, TV shows) also controlled ordinary human manifestations of sexuality. In the modern world, frank hugs and public kisses are no longer considered a violation of the law, but no one has canceled the ethics of public sexual relations.

What is unethical to demonstrate in public to a couple of lovers, and what in the behavior of two lovers can be considered a clear violation of the culture of behavior in society?

The simplest spectacle that is unacceptable in a public place is sticking your tongue out at another person or people. At best, this gesture will be considered stupid behavior, at worst - a hint of sexuality.
You should not show lovers excessive tenderness in public, as this leaves others in an awkward position.
In today's world, a couple in love or a married couple can act independently of each other in public without demonstrating to others their close personal relationship. This suggests that spouses or lovers are not required to hold hands or sit side by side at the table. They are free to share social circles in crowded places (at a reception, at a party, on the street). But too obsessive attention to each other in a company or in a society of strangers can be regarded by others as a fact of unethics.
The height of culture lack is to have a love conversation between yourself or exchange meaningful glances when other people see facial expressions and listen to this conversation.
If one of the lovers is bored, you should not change the scenario of behavior in order to leave the company of guests or the reception, explaining to others the exact reason for leaving. In other words, if someone in a couple is bored, this is not a reason to announce it to other people. Everyone in a couple is free to have fun on their own and not spoil their going out to the people with the partner’s dissatisfaction.

The conduct rules for lovers in public places make it possible for both partners to feel equally independent, even if there is some kind of dependence in their relationship. This dependence is appropriate to leave for home space. Thus, the etiquette of the behavior of each person in the society of other people puts him in a position equal to that of those around him.