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Family quarrels with children.
Quarrels in the family always look impartial. But when children are present during parental quarrels, this lowers the level of respect of children in relation to their parents, because each of the parents humiliates the other in a quarrel, and both parents are usually loved by children.
When young children watch their parents quarrel, they cannot determine for themselves who is right and who is wrong, and they develop feelings of anxiety. If parents cannot be reconciled, children begin to leave home in moments of quarrels, and experiences lead them to any company, even not the best ones, just to forget about the scenes of family scandals.
Gradually parental scandals develop in children indifference to both parents, the extinction of the parents' authority. The loss of parental authority entails another disaster - the inability to carry out the educational process. Children will simply cease to obey, reckon with the opinion of their parents, and become uncontrollable. Such children grow up indifferent, selfish and sometimes cruel.
From family scandals, children are striving for an independent life, trying to distance themselves from the family and are unlikely to become a support for their parents in old age.
Based on the above, one should take into account the fact that family quarrels with children are unacceptable. If a scandal is brewing between the spouses, it is better to sort things out outside the home or during the absence of children. It may happen that the parents quickly reconcile, but the trust of the children will be lost forever.
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