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Nothing can be changed - what to do?
Each person more than once in his life faced a situation, which was beyond his power to influence. What you don't do - nothing helps to "turn" luck in your direction. A popular saying in such cases is: "If you cannot change the circumstances, change your attitude towards them." And everything would be fine, but changing your attitude towards circumstances is sometimes very, very difficult - months and years of life may take to change this very "attitude towards them."
This condition usually results in mood disorders, depression, prolonged loss of energy and interest in life in general. What if nothing can be changed, and besides, it is also difficult to change your attitude?
Let's try to approach the solution of this problem outside the box! If the situation is not in your favor and all the methods you tried did not lead to the desired result, it is necessary to move away from the intended plan for a while. Set yourself other goals and get busy with them. In the meantime, your view, "blurred" on the solution of the previous problem, will become more objective when considering it. After all, it is no secret that we consider all problems from the point of view of our own perception of the world (subjectively), and not objectively. Being under stress during convulsive attempts to solve a problem with our pressure, we often miss many small nuances that would help us find a solution that suits us.
In addition, life is so changeable that after a while it may turn out that an interesting situation for you has already taken a different turn, which is most beneficial for you. It is then that it is still worth trying your hand at solving it. And if by that time you do not change your mind about implementing previous plans into reality, luck will be on your side.
Summarizing the above: learn to wait for the right moment if your goals are not immediately commensurate with your capabilities!
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