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Guest marriage - what is it?
Modern living conditions require not only quick adaptation to changing circumstances, but also high mobility of resources. This could not but leave an imprint on such a small economic unit as a family. Often, spouses are forced to leave the bosom of the family for a long time in order to get a higher-paying job or find a job specific to a rare specialty. Long separation can lead to a loss of attachment to family life, a loss of interest of one spouse to another. This threatens the collapse of relationships and marriage.
To prevent this from happening, it is psychologically correct in forced circumstances to enter into a guest marriage, which does not require continuous living in a common territory, conducting a joint household. This form of marriage eliminates a number of obligations, simplifies relationships and creates the prerequisites for giving stability to marriage relations.
Motives for registering a guest marriage:
- unwillingness to leave the habitable place,
- the inability or unwillingness to part with a good job,
- unwillingness to change the usual way of life,
- economic disadvantage of a joint economy,
- unwillingness to have a common life.
The very name "guest marriage" means that the spouses come to see each other, to visit each other. Such relationships do not get bored, do not turn into routine, insipid.
The tricky part of a guest marriage is raising children together. This issue is decided on an individual basis. Children can, having reached a certain age, live alternately with each of the parents or permanently with one of them to choose from. In caring for children and maintaining children, spouses invest joint efforts, together or separately they can create a material base for offspring.
Regardless of the fact that a guest marriage keeps spouses at a distance, it implies loyalty and mutual assistance.
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